If I want more cake, and there is more cake, I mostly certainly have more cake, or fish, or leafy greens.
What I will never want is more of hearing what I’ve got to have more of.
Hearing an opinion on what I’ve got to do … probably won’t make me mad or make me hate or offend me or set me off.
But it will also not change what I want.
Or what I don’t want.
To have.
More of.